I Never Thought of It That Way: How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times – Mónica Guzmán

In I Never Thought of It That Way , Mónica Guzmán, an award-winning journalist, tackles the growing divide in modern conversations. Drawing from her experiences bridging political and cultural gaps, she argues that curiosity—not confrontation—is key to understanding. The book blends personal stories, interviews, and research to show how asking questions can dissolve hostility. Guzmán emphasizes listening deeply, even when opinions clash, and offers practical tools for navigating heated discussions. She challenges readers to rethink assumptions and find common ground in a world that often prioritizes being right over connecting.

The author’s approach is rooted in real-world examples, from family dinners to online debates, making complex ideas relatable. She highlights how fear of disagreement stifles growth and shares strategies to stay open-minded. Chapters explore the science of empathy, the role of identity in conflicts, and how small shifts in language can transform relationships. Guzmán’s warm tone and actionable advice make the book both inspiring and accessible. It’s a guide for anyone tired of echo chambers and eager to engage meaningfully with others.